
“I think of it as you’re the bridge between these two languages and cultures. It feels less like a switch because you’re not fully one thing,” director Celine Song muses when I ask her about switching between her Korean and American identities. Song’s acclaimed debut feature film, Past Lives, opens with a scene in which our protagonist, a Korean-Canadian-American expat, Nora, sits in between her American husband Arthur (John Magaro) and Korean childhood beau Hae Sung at a trendy bar in New York. We briefly adopt the point of view of a stranger as they wonder what is happening with the peculiar threesome across the bar counter before the film cuts to Nora’s life before this particular moment. The scene, in all its understated glory, perfectly encapsulates the experience of living between two cultures. You’re constantly existing between two spaces, two languages and, at times, two identities. It’s such a singular, unique feeling, almost impossible to put into words or to visualise, but Song has not only done it but made it look effortless.

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As Nora in the film, Song also immigrated from Seoul to Canada and later to New York to become a playwright. It wasn’t until Past Lives that Song found herself as a filmmaker. “Honestly, the part of myself that I poured myself into the most was filmmaking. This movie really was a discovery for me as a filmmaker, because I didn’t know that I was a filmmaker until I was on set, making a movie,” she tells whynow. Song says that making Past Lives has changed her life. She’s already working on a new movie, but Past Lives, released in the UK on 8 September, might have legs to become a major awards contender. To even be in the discussion is a pretty impressive achievement for a debut filmmaker. Although Song has plenty of experience in spearheading plays, the responsibility of filmmaking was a completely different beast. “You’re responsible for the time and space of hundreds of people, right? On top of having to make a great movie that makes their time worthwhile!” she laughs and notes that she turned to her producers when she needed advice herself.

John Magaro, Celine Song, Greta Lee and Teo Yoo attend the “Past Lives” New York Screening at The Metrograph on May 31, 2023, in New York City. (Photo by Theo Wargo/Getty Images)
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In order for the non-romance between Nora and Hae Sung to work, you need a third player. Arthur, Nora’s husband, played by John Magaro, is the awkward third wheel in the film, and Past Lives would never work without him.

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Past Lives won the Audience Award at the 2023 Sundance Film Festival London. Courtesy of Sundance Film Festival: London.
Past Lives is now in cinemas.